Posted by: tituteo | May 13, 2005

Opposites Attract

Yesterday was Fannie’s (Now reverted to Qili) birthday. For the unknowing, she’s my bridesmaid at my ROM. Meaning one of my buddies. How time flies. We recounted the first time I celebrated her birthday with her in Newcastle (Australia! Yes, there’s a place known as Newcastle here! It’s a wonderful place!) That was 6 whole years ago!! WOW! We seem to have grown a lot, yet at the same time we have not changed. Ah. How’s that possible?

Qili’s an introvert, though she enjoys the occasional bush walks. Ha. She’s the kind of people I can’t get stand. So it’s really amazing how our friendship has blossomed in these years. While I am loudspoken, she’s soft. I mean she’s TALL and not exactly your damsel-in-distress kind of women, (We secretly despise those women who shriek and giggle. Wah Kaoz.. she’ll say!) but when she speaks over the phone, you will never imagine a voice like hers belonging to such a tall giant Haha! While I am open with my feelings and emotions, she likes to keep to herself and solve her own problems. She’s just someone who’ll silently work away in a corner and maybe even blend into the wallpaper if she can choose to. In other words, if we are standing together and something bad happens, everyone will definitely point their fingers at me, even if she’s the culprit! Argh… I’m sure some of you understand what I mean.

She’s so stubborn I wanna bite her at times. =B But yet, her determination is so strong I wanna salute her! I think it’s a love-hate relationship! Ha.. She’s so strong and independent Yet at the same time, she’s a softie who is so emotional a little tenderness towards her will make her tears flow like the Niagara Falls.

A friend in need is a friend indeed. We’ve been through so much together. Thru good and bad times. She was there when I was most depressed and she was there when I was most happy. This is a friend I treasure. All the best, my dear friend, for this year ahead. May you find your happiness like I did. Soon.

Looking forward to celebrating more birthdays to come!


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